Like many people, I don't think we know enough about the origins of homosexuality to enable us to judge others [other than on religious grounds] on what they do in private. What I, and many others, have trouble with is "gays" publicly promoting their lifestyle, in infantile and disrespectful ways, and then complaining about being stereotyped. Obama chose naively to invite "gays" to a White House reception. Result: instead of celebrating their inclusion, some had themselves photographed flipping the bird at a portrait of Ronald Reagan. If you want respect, grow up and earn it.